Stalked: I See You

Being Watched

Sorry but, the story starts off without a bang, though things soon start to get interesting.

I See You is interjected with short chapters from ‘the stalker’, the creepiness of the stalker’s thoughts really bring home how important it is to be vigilant about your information, pictures and day to day movements. You just cannot underestimate the crazy things that go on in some people’s heads.

Imagine if people were setting up websites specifically to help stalkers find their next victim. Many of whom like to do more than just stalk. These websites display photographs you, details of your appearance, your daily routines, the journeys you take, the route you take, and the carriage you tend to sit in on the 7:30am train from platform 3……

New profiles being added daily without consent.

People pay to access the listings and select their prey – though it’s promoted as a  more down to earth means of getting close to someone you want to approach innocently, without all the trimmings of a traditional dating site. The website owner, knows better.

This is all part of what happens in I See You. 

A very disturbing possibility to say the least.

You don’t really know whether a chance meeting with a stinger is sheer coincidence, or a result of being watched, followed and targeted.

Paranoid? Maybe.

Better to be paranoid than naive?

You decide.

The author, Clare McKintosh comes from a police background – which makes me wonder how much of this book might be based on real life cases she’s worked on, despite being written as a work of fiction.

The twists pick up pace very quickly toward the end of the book, leaving us with a very unexpected finish.

I’d probably rate I See You an 8/10 based largely on it’s enlightening and awareness raising quality.

Blissfully Ignorant

In this day and age, complacency is not your friend, particularly around social media, privacy settings, uploading choice photos, and detailed information about your whereabouts and life in real time, with wild abandon.

This data can be the golden treasure that a potential fraudster, stalker or other cyber criminal needs to begin plans to do you harm. A sinister minority that muddy the waters for well intentioned online followers.

Read All About It

In the main stream news, we don’t seem hear much about cyber crime, or crimes aided by social media other than fraud or illegal organisation of terrorist events. But what about the role of social media in the planning and plotting of a murder? Go do your research!

Stalker

An interesting BBC article from a few years back noted that the profile of a cyber stalker is often characterised by social inadequacy in real life (or may lead to it through online obsessions). Anxious, isolated, depressed individuals who are out of synch with reality.

I wouldn’t be so sure though – since we live in an age where materialism and exhibitionism is at it’s all time peak, there are likely many jealous souls looking for sophisticated ways to achieve dastly deeds. Or bitter ex partners, friends who feel betrayed, the list goes on. I think anyone can be a predator, and I See You really highlights this in the story.

Wise up and be on your guard folks!

Fraudsters

“You are now 20 times more likely to be robbed while at your computer by a criminal based overseas than held up in the street, new figures have revealed.” Martin Evans, crime correspondent, Telegraph.

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3 thoughts on “Stalked: I See You

  1. Gbolabo Adetunji – Atmosphere – Life presents us with countless paths, some visible and others hidden beneath the surface of thought and curiosity. As I contemplate the value of these paths, I often find myself caught between two states of being: that of the wonderer and the wanderer. Both are seekers, but they explore different realms. The question I return to, time and again, is whether it is better to be a wonderer—who explores the mind and spirit—or a wanderer, who roams the world’s physical landscapes. To be a wonderer is to dive deep into the realms of imagination, to question the unknown, and to constantly seek answers. A wonderer observes life with an open heart, engaging in endless curiosity, not content with the surface but always searching for hidden meanings. Philosophers, poets, and dreamers are wonderers, ever captivated by the "why" behind existence. They create worlds from their thoughts, finding joy in the mysteries of life, even if no concrete answers emerge. Yet, there is something alluring about the life of a wanderer as well. A wanderer moves through the world, discovering new places, meeting new people, and learning through experience. While a wonderer is grounded in thought, a wanderer is propelled by action. The wanderer feels the wind, touches the earth, and breathes in the scent of unfamiliar lands. Through this physical journey, the wanderer collects stories, cultures, and wisdom that cannot be found solely in introspection. However, both approaches to life have their limitations. The wonderer risks being trapped in endless contemplation, sometimes missing out on the richness of real-world experiences. The wanderer, on the other hand, may become so absorbed in the act of movement that they forget to pause and reflect, to consider the deeper meanings behind their travels. Perhaps the answer lies in balance. To live fully, one must embrace both wonder and wandering. The wonderer should step outside and engage with the world, while the wanderer should take moments of stillness to reflect on their experiences. After all, to wonder without wandering is to be lost in thought, and to wander without wonder is to be aimless. Ultimately, whether it is better to be a wonderer or a wanderer depends on the person. But as I ponder this question, I see value in both. One offers the joy of inquiry, while the other offers the beauty of discovery. Perhaps the best journey is one that intertwines both. This blog is not monetized. All photos featured on this site are either my own or were acquired from free photo-sharing sites which do not require any attribution. 

    Gbolabo Adetunji

    The statistics on fraudsters is alarming. The robbers have their domain in the gadgets we buy and bring home. Almost ironic!

  2. dweezer19 – Hi, Cheryl here. I can hardly believe how quickly the years have added up since I first began blogging, with life events that saw me migrate from the US to Paradise and back-twice! I would not give anything for the rich experiences we had in Costa Rica and I miss it every day. We will visit every chance we get; however, life is rarely a straight and wide path and for this portion of it we are back living in the states. I am fortunate to be living in a place rich with wildlife, beauty and wonderful inspiration. If you hang around I promise I will keep sharing with you and hope you find something to enjoy in what my camera and I manage to capture. My deepest desire is to find and show the common vein that connects us all. We live as one, breathe as one, were created as one. If we could just combine all our brilliant thoughts into one fine idea, what a wonderful world we would have. Love and Light. My tropicalaffair site is full and so I have moved. You can still read about our adventures here or hop over to my new place at https://dreamingreality646941880.wordpress.com/2018/01/12/first-blog-post/ I hope to see you there!

    dweezer19

    There Is much to be cautious about in this day, with a new dating company that ‘sets up’ chance meetings and lets you know a potential new partner’s tastes, hangouts and interests. I think it is horrifying. As for books not starting out with a bang, I don’t like the new method of thrusting one into actuon and expecting a person to form emotional attachments to characters with no past and for which we know nothing about. I enjoy a bit of descriptive background. Thanks for the review.

    1. Cherryl – UK – This and that, an all rounder!! If it amuses, entertains, inspires or proves useful to just one person then it's doing its job! God bless x 💛🔆🌴🎨🌼✈️

      Cherryl

      Thanks for commenting – I agree, it’s nicer to build up to the story and get to know the characters. Dating sites are a breeding ground for ill-intentioned activity, technology isn’t always such a great thing!

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